Grace Under Fire: 5 Helpful Tips For Dealing With Difficult Clients

Grace Under Fire: 5 Helpful Tips For Dealing With Difficult Clients

You can’t have a business without having clients and unfortunately, where there are clients, there are also ‘difficult’ clients.


You can please some of the people some of the time but not all of the people all of the time. Every business that provides a service will no doubt encounter a few disgruntled personalities along the way. As public relations professionals, we’ve all had that experience: Some clients are a breeze to work with, while others can be extremely difficult – the kind that makes you cringe every time their number lights up on your mobile. You know the ones – those who drain your energy, criticize and complain incessantly about something you’ve worked on diligently (and see real value in), or an overly needy client who calls at least twice a day to find out why they aren’t in that society magazine yet!

PR is difficult at times. You’re in the middle of everyone, the diplomat between the client and the marketing spiel and between the journalist and the story. So suddenly having to deal with someone being nasty or unreasonable is just one thing that you don’t need. But how do you handle it when the client is paying the bill?

Dealing with difficult people is essential to our success. When dealing with difficult people, specifically a client, it might seem that keeping peace and our sanity is a tough, if not impossible, task. So how do you find the right balance?

Bottom Line: You bend over backwards when appropriate but you also learn to put your foot down when needed. Even though you may be holding the phone on one end, biting your tongue and stabbing that notepad with your pen, you can turn this around!

Here are some helpful tips on how to deal with difficult clients:

Be Open, Be Clear

When dealing with a client, it is better to be clear about expectations at the start of the new business relationship. This is your opportunity to share what type of reporting, results, and communication your new client can expect from you. Have an honest conversation about the amount of communication that is most comfortable to your client – and what your agency can provide. However, even clients who appear pleasant, understanding, and accepting in the beginning can become challenging once the contract is signed. It is important to know that while you should aim to be a valued partner, not all requests are feasible. Don’t be afraid to tell your client no – but with good reason. Explain why their request is not realistic or possible. You cannot please everyone all of the time, and that’s a fact.

Worth The Trouble

Some clients will send a rude email – out of the blue! Or you may get a harsh tone on your voice mail on a weekend. Then it’s time to ask yourself this question: “Is it me?” If not, it’s worth your while to check in on your client. Ask probing questions to find out what is really bothering him. It could be that he’s going through something that is affecting his personal life, or it could be a trickle down “telling off” from his boss that has nothing to do with you or your work. Be kind, lend your ears, and see if there’s anything you can do to help. Sometimes it does have everything to do with you. If this is the case, have an honest conversation with your client, and with yourself. Perhaps, you need to assess and amplify your own efforts.

You Are The Expert

For clients that call for constant updates or to give you their own PR ideas (ridiculous as they may seem), remember: You are the expert hired to do the job. Don’t be arrogant – you can either take the ideas into consideration (if worth exploring), or politely give your views as to why they cannot be executed, for e.g. it would end up in the editors’ trash. Explain why you were hired in the first place – because of your specific expertise. Perhaps this is also a good time to share more information and updates on what you’ve been doing, to assure your clients that you’re on top of things and have their best interests at heart. More importantly, assure them that you know what you’re doing.

Be Proactive And Supportive

It’s quite common for some of my clients to reach out to me for advice on matters not related to the work we’re doing. Don’t turn away. If you can help with some input to a web design or business question, become an ally and take the time to problem-solve with them. Or refer them to someone who’s in a better position to help. By offering a solution and assisting with other tasks, you show that you care about their business. This not only builds rapport but also trust – and this goes a long way in building a good, long-lasting relationship with your client.

Time To Let Go!

Unfortunately, the client is not always right. If your client is consistently being difficult and your personalities just don’t mesh, then it may be time to take the “D” out and let difficult clients go. While it’s important to do whatever it takes to keep a client within reason, you, as the expert in your field, get to define what is or isn’t working.  If your client is making your team miserable, taking up a lot of time better spent working on clients who do respect your work, it might be time to set you both free.

Whatever you decide, always be professional and polite. Be as honest as you can without getting too personal.

For the most part, PR pros love their clients and probably spend more time with them than they do their family. A PR agency should act as an extension of the client’s team. Your interactions with your client should build on one another – after all, you’re ultimately interested in a long-term relationship with your clients, and that is what you should strive for.

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This article was originally published in Corporate Media PL blog and has been reposted on Connected Women with the permission of the author.

Edited by Michelle Sarthou
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Irene Gomez

Irene Gomez is the founder and Chief Inspiration Officer of Corporate Media, a boutique communications agency working with a diverse group of clients in the corporate, government, and non-government sector. Corporate Media's services include Public Relations, Marketing, Publishing and Event Organization. For more information, visit www.corpmediapl.com

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